Ok so yall know women have a theoretical biological clock that is all too real sometimes. And we always have the dilemma of chosing career over family (depending on the career of your choice) often you have to sacrifice one for the other....not forever, but the longer you postpone it the less probable success in the other will be.

Given that most women would like to have the full package ie marriage or good job or financial security or job satisfaction or all of the aforementioned before they have kids what is a woman to do when she is established (ie. financial security) yet has no man or long term significant other to have a baby with?

Well recently I asked 2 of my friends, who I consider to have good qualities, if I get to the age of 35+ and want a baby would they consider being the sperm donors? They both said NO!!!

I'd like to talk about my quarter life crisis and also the debate between whether depression is a bonafide disease, laziness (as one male friend believes it to be) or simply unfulfillment....You're depressed because you are unfulfilled and you are unfulfilled because you haven't taken charge of your life, at least thats how I see it but I won't say it isn't a disease.

I'd like to talk about these things as they pertain to my life but I usually bust into crocodile tears or I just can't seem to get the words together to express myself in a cohesive manner.

Sigh